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How strict are your parents?

09.06.2025 07:43

How strict are your parents?

My dad told me to stay at home , you will be safe here don't go outside nowadays people's intentions aren't good , you will suffer i know what kind of people live here just stay inside.. never go outside and make friends ! Now it's been 4 years I'm staying at my home no friends nd all mu routine sucks !

Sometimes I feel I'm in prison let me tell you how !..

After that we shifted in civil area , ofcourse rent house and all !.

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I usually skipped the meals to reach the destination .

They were really good to me but later, my dad after drinking alcohol while eating dinner ( actually we all eat dinner together kinda habit ) so he used to say what will you do in your future do u have any idea ? Go for CA prepare for it after your 12th he don't even know the meaning of this his frends son was doing it so he said this to me. Later one day someone called my father I was in 12 th standard tht time was waiting for my result ofcourse! That person asked my father ( is your daughter interested to go abroad) i was like no I'll never leave you dad i started crying i was kinda close to them . That uncle was dealing with us that my son can't clear IELTS nd all tht shit so let us marry our kid nd we will give u money she can go abroad nd after few mnths she can call her husband there !.

My dad was doing govt job . he got retired 6 years before!…. At that time I was in 10th maybe !.

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Whenever I cry infront of them my dad always use vulgar words after drinking alcohol like ( tum log kuch nhi kr skte , chuttiya aulad ho tum meri , ise acha mar jate , logo ke bche kya kuch kre hai or tum log mere paise pr aish kr rhe ho bs , maine to ghr bna v dia tum log to ek eet ( brick) tk nhi kharid paoge ) you are useless! I'm ashamed of you !.

My father said i should do house work . U won't be serving your husband money he won't eat money he will eat food go nd learn how to cook !.. since past 4 years I'm the one who is cooking the food daily !.

After completing my bachelor's i did fight with them nd said i wanna become a cabincrew they were against it but when I showed them the luxurious life of a cabincrew they agreed ! Nd allowed me to join the academy for training !.

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My father scolded me a lot as i refused that offer ! He said you can't do anything properly you are useless !.

I don't know if they r toxic or they r protecting me .. but I feel depressed , i feel I'm a burden on them .they always talk abt my marriage … I didn't lived my life properly like other girls r living. . just for once I wanna do what I really want in my life !..

This was something famous at that time maybe now too !.

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Whenever I go for an interview after doing a fight with them they just give me 1000 or 2000 rupees nd it's tough to survive for 4 days properly !..

Nd now again I'm just doing house work which I'll be doing in future too after marrying someone . I'm struggling enough but i know I'll be successful one day !..

Sometimes I hate my parents but still I can't live without them I cry whenever I hurt them .. whenever I do fight i regret tht later !..

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I dreamt of becoming army officer but when I shared about this with my family they were laughing on me nd said u can never become one ! U don't have tht qualities I said I'll develop !. Let me join some coaching and all but they said we don't have money !. Nd dad said army is not for girls !. Kitchen is the only place you can serve!.

We came back to our hometown after completing my studies! Here I didn't know anyone ofcourse we staying with him in quarters for 20years! So it was tough to go out nd make friends !. But guess what ?

After few months I wasn't feeling well i was staying in pg for ofcourse food poisoning of something like that happened nd at the same time my periods started!.

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I'm waking up early so that I can complete my syllabus on time nd can give my govt exams so I can clear any of it nd can go far from my parents !…

After 4 failures I got selected for indigo airline but for PHT training ( they were asking 20,000 per month ) it was already tough for me to arrange the money to attend the interviews.

I completed my bachelor's from open university so ofcourse I was staying at home no friends ntg .. I wasn't in touch with my 12 th class friends my dad changed my number nd my mom she used to check my phone when I was in 12th she used to read my text what I'm talking with my friends with whom I'm talking ! Nd later she used to punish me , ie. Not giving my phone for next 1 week , she slapped me thousands of the time infront of my dad and he never said a single word to her !.

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Sometimes I feel depressed!.

I joined one school to teach students ! But I didn't liked the environment there ! So i left the job after 8 months they paid me 10,000 per month but my dad said it's not enough .. nd we aren't surviving on your money just leave the job nd do house work !

Later doctor said it's PCOD just take some treatment nd maintain your daily routine properly .. my mother literally asked her ( the doctor) that is she pregnant ? This heavy flow is bcuz of miscarriage? Even doctor was shocked after listening this !.

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Wanna go outside on bike rides with friends , eating with them , enjoying with them , clicking pictures with them .

My dad said if u want to do work than who will clean the house , who will make food ? Ur husband??

My mother always taunt me learn something from them , they do whole house chores nd u can't even cook properly!. To be honest now I can cook properly I can do house work in just 2 hours .they always find mistakes in my work nd make me do it again !.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

My mother said go nd die thousands of the time !.

Later i got admitted in hospital cuz of heavy bleeding ( heavy flow ) nd nurse asked me do u have any boyfriend nd when she asked me this my both parents were infront me nd I said no I don't .. the minute she went away from me my mom grabbed my neck nd asked me again nd again .. i was crying nd begging that no I didn't do anything wrong !.

You rascal ! Why did you born ?

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From Punjab to Delhi from Delhi to UP nd so on ..

I'm giving interviews , I'm doing fight with them everyday crying begging infront of them so I won't end up like my mom !.

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They allow me to go outside with them on festivals like diwali or new year . Whenever I say i wanna go outside i wanna make friends how will I know the world if I won't face it !.

Now I'm preparing for afcat . My cabincrew dream became ( just my dream) .. whenever I try to do studies they always start comparing me with those girls who just wanna marry in future after their 12th .. they do house chores nd after tht whole day they gossips abt eachother .. my mom owns a shop they those girls come nd do gossiping!.

I asked them to go outside like picnic or something they said we don't have money ! Just earn by urself nd go wherever u want ! But how will I earn they never allow me to do work !.

I cried I came back home . Nd they r taunting me again nd again .. krli apni mrji ? Hogya selection? Maa baap se ldkr jaoge to jhi hoga !!. Kisi kaam ke nhi ho bhgwan v tumhara sth nhi dega tum maa baap ko dukhi krte ho !..

My mother never trusted me !.